“Look To Your Weaknesses To
Discover Your Strengths”
Editorial by Robert
Kirwan
Summer
time provides and excellent opportunity for each of us to slow
down and truly take stock of our life. We can look back to see
what we’ve accomplished along the way and look forward to
determine where we would like to be a year from now. Sometimes,
however, it is wise to ask others for their opinion as well
simply because we often tend to be very hard on our selves and
may not even realize that we have had a positive impact on
others. What we
may see as a weakness may actually be one of our strengths. Take
a look at the following story and you will see what I mean.
A long time ago a water bearer in
India
owned two large pots. Each pot hung on one of the ends of a
pole which he carried across his neck. One of the pots had a
crack in it, and while the other pot was perfect and always
delivered a full portion of water at the end of the long walk
from the stream to the master’s house, the cracked pot
arrived only half full.
For a full
two years this went on daily, with the bearer delivering only
one and a half pots of water in his master’s house. Of
course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments. But
the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and
miserable that it was able to accomplish only half of what it
had been made to do. After two years of what it perceived to
be a bitter failure, it spoke to the water bearer one day by
the stream.
“I am ashamed of myself, and I want to apologize to
you.”
“Why?” asked the bearer. “What are you ashamed
of?”
“I have
been able, for these past two years, to deliver only half my
load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out
all the way back to your master’s house. Because of my
flaws, you have to do all of this work, and you don’t get
full value from your efforts,” the pot said sadly.
The water bearer felt sorry for the old cracked pot,
and in his compassion he said, “As we return to the
master’s house, I want you to notice the beautiful flowers
along the path.”
Indeed, as they went up the hill, the old cracked pot
took notice of the sun warming the beautiful wild flowers on
the side of the path, and this cheered it some. But at the end
of the trail, it still felt bad because it had leaked out half
of its load, and so again the pot apologized to the bearer for
its failure.
The bearer said to the pot, “Did you notice that
there were flowers on only your side of the path, but not on
the other pot’s side? That’s because I have always known
about your flaw, and I took advantage of it. I planted flower
seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk
back from the stream, you’ve watered them. For two years I
have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate my
master’s table. Without you being just the way you are, he
would not have this beauty to grace his house.
The message
from this story is that each of us have our own unique flaws.
In a way, we are all cracked pots. However, what we see as
imperfections in ourselves may not be considered as such by
the people who are closest to us. In fact, as I stated
earlier, what we think of as failures on our part may actually
be our strengths as far as others are concerned.
So as you
spend time in a reflective mood this summer, don’t be too
quick to pass judgement on yourself. If you acknowledge your
flaws and your shortcomings, you may discover that they are
the cause of a lot of beauty and happiness that you never even
realized. Look to your weaknesses and you too may discover
your strengths, just like the cracked pot.
Have a good
week!
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