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      As I sit here typing this editorial I am looking at a small piece
      of paper that is taped to the top edge of my computer desk. On that paper
      is written one of my favourite inspirational quotes. I look at it often,
      especially when I come to a decision that could end up being a major
      turning point in my life.  
       The quote
      is: 
       “Twenty years from now you will
      be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do, than by the things you
      did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour. Catch
      the tradewinds in your sails. Explore! Dream! Discover!” 
         
         And so, this past
      spring I decided that I would follow that advice and have embarked on a
      personal journey which could allow me to start a whole new career of
      service that will not only change the rest of my life but will also enable
      me to make a real difference in the lives of the people around me. I
      remember that as I was considering whether or not to accept this
      tremendous challenge I would often stare at the quote above my computer
      and I realized that if I turned down this opportunity I might regret it
      for the rest of my life. 
         
         The thing that finally
      convinced me to go ahead with my decision was a little article I came
      across written by Larry Harp, called ‘Leaving The City of Regret”. Let
      me share the story in the author’s own words. As you are reading it,
      think about what is going on in your own life right now and see if Larry
      Harp has a message for you in the story. 
         
         “I
      had not really planned on taking a trip this time of year, and yet I found
      myself packing rather hurriedly. This trip was going to be unpleasant and
      I knew in advance that no real good would come of it. I'm talking about my
      annual "GUILT TRIP." 
         
          I
      got tickets to fly there on Wish I Had airlines. It was an extremely short
      flight. I got my baggage, which I could not check. I chose to carry it
      myself all the way. It was weighted down with a thousand memories of what
      might have been. No one greeted me as I entered the terminal to the 
      
      Regret
      
      City
      
      International
      
      Airport. I say international because people from
      all over the world come to this dismal town. 
         
         As
      I checked into the Last Resort Hotel, I noticed that they would be hosting
      the year's most important event, the Annual Pity Party. I wasn't going to
      miss that great social occasion. Many of the leading citizens in town
      would be there. 
         
         First,
      there would be the Done family. You know, Should Have, Would Have and
      Could Have. Then came the I Had family. You probably know ol' Wish I Had
      and his clan. Of course, the Opportunities would be present; Missed and
      Lost. The biggest family would be the Yesterday's. There are far too many
      of them to count, but each one would have a very sad story to share. 
         
         Then
      Shattered Dreams would surely make an appearance. And It's Their Fault
      would regale us with stories (excuses) about how things had failed in his
      life, and each story would be loudly applauded by Don't Blame Me and I
      Couldn't Help It.  
         
         Well,
      to make a long story short, I went to this depressing party knowing that
      there would be no real benefit in doing so. And, as usual, I became very
      depressed. But as I thought about all of the stories of failures brought
      back from the past, it occurred to me that all of this trip and subsequent
      "pity party" could be cancelled by ME! I started to truly
      realize that I did not have to be there. I didn't have to be depressed.
      One thing kept going through my mind, I CAN'T CHANGE YESTERDAY, BUT I DO
      HAVE THE POWER TO MAKE TODAY A WONDERFUL DAY. I can be happy, joyous,
      fulfilled, encouraged, as well as encouraging. Knowing this, I left the
      City of 
      
      Regret
      
       immediately and left no forwarding
      address.” 
         
         Once I finished reading
      the story I was convinced that there was only one real choice for me to
      make. I simply had to step forward and accept this new challenge and the
      opportunity to be of service to my community. And so here I am. No matter
      what happens during the rest of my life, I will always have the
      satisfaction of knowing that I tried. Of having thrown off the bowlines
      and sailed from the safe harbour. This has been a personal journey of
      discovery and fulfillment.  
      Above
      all else, I am happy and proud to say that I live on  I  CAN DO IT STREET!  
      There
      is plenty of room on that street.  
      And
      so, I throw out an invitation to all students to come along and be my
      neighbour! Make sure that as you work your way through the education
      system in search of meaning to your life you Explore! Dream! Discover! all
      there is in your path. Accept new challenges with all of your heart and
      give it your best. You may not always find success, but at least you won't
      find yourself living in the City of Regret.  |